Final Good-byes to an Iconic Leader

On a sunny day with light breeze, the community said good-bye to Doris Aiken, 90 at a memorial service honoring her held at the Unitarian Church in Schenectady, NY. There were over a 100 in attendance. Doris’s Grand Daughter, Charlotte played the Swallow Tailed Gig on her Viola. Family members spoke of her courage as an activist and Mother. Friends and colleagues reflected on Doris’s unrelenting spirit and optimism.  15 years ago, Doris wrote her own obituary, which was read by her son-in-law Tom Buckley. The reading gave the service a light touch of humor, displaying Doris’s gift of self-deprecation.

Carl Strock, a retired columnist stated, “Its one thing to change laws. What Doris Aiken did was change attitudes. Among her many achievements, that I think is her most impressive feat.”

Her son, William, who has been running RID along with his sister, Jane will continue RID’s Mission to fight for the rights of victims, Doris started nearly 40 years ago. Doris leaves behind a legacy the includes the use of victim impact statements at sentencing hearings of defendants, a practice she helped to implement that has become a staple of the criminal justice system.

 

Mission Statement

RID’s mission is to deter drunk driving, underage drinking and help the victims of drunk driving. Since our inception in 1978, RID has never accepted any funding from the alcohol industry. In May of 2021, RID decided our administrators would no longer draw a salary. As of April 2023 RID is no longer a 501(c-3). So donations made to RID are no longer tax-deductable.

RID has 35 chapters in 25 States. Our chapters operate completely autonomous. RID believes its chapters can be more effective if they are able to operate independently, free of red tape and layers of bureaucracy which can encumber their ability to function in a successful manner and make decisions in a timely fashion.

RID produces a newsletter twice a year to promote effective strategies to combat drunken driving, highlight the work being done by individual chapters across the nation, publishing studies which analyzes the impact of drunken driving and educating the public on the consequences of drunken driving and teenage binge drinking.

RID offers support to victims of drunken driving; provide referral service information as well as advice for victims on how to navigate the criminal court system. RID is a strong advocate for legislation all over the country that lowers the BAC level from .08 to .05. RID has partnered with the advocacy group, .05saveslives to assist efforts to pass .05 legislation.

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Aiken still passionate about the cause she started

Doris Aiken smiles in the living room of her Nott Street home in Schenectady.

Photographer: Peter R. Barber
Doris Aiken smiles in the living room of her Nott Street home in Schenectady.

 

Doris Aiken was 51 years old when she started Remove Intoxicated Drivers (RID), an organization that began in her home in Schenectady and took root across America.
That was back in the 1970s, when in most cases, it was not a crime to drive drunk and kill a human being.
Aiken became a leader in an anti-drunken driving movement that changed American society.
“I was just following my heart in drawing attention to a system that was routinely failing the victims of drunken drivers,” she says in the latest issue of the RID newsletter.
Doris Aiken with Sen. Alfonse D'Amato in 1984. Aiken, a lifelong Democrat, worked with D'Amato, a Republican, to help pass the law that raised New York State's drinking age from 18 to 21. (photo provided)

Doris Aiken with Sen. Alfonse D’Amato in 1984. Aiken, a lifelong Democrat, worked with D’Amato, a Republican, to help pass the law that raised New York State’s drinking age from
18 to 21. (photo provided)
Aiken, who is now a 90-year-old grandmother, is still president of the organization, its advisor and a voting member of the RID board. This fall, she passed the day-to-day duties to her
son William Aiken. Her daughter Jane Wyatt Aiken is the newsletter editor and manages the accounting and mailing list. Doris’ husband, William S. Aiken Sr., who was vice president
and general manager of RID, died in 2004.
Doris launched her campaign on Dec. 5, 1977 after she saw a story in The Daily Gazette about a horrible accident in Glenville.
Karen and Timothy Morris, ages 17 and 19, were hit by a driver who was drunk at the wheel with an open can of beer between his knees. Timothy was killed instantly. Karen died 48
hours later at Ellis Hospital.
When Doris contacted the district attorney’s office, she found out that the driver would not go to jail or lose his license. It was only an accident, she was told.
With the help of her church, Unitarian Universalist Society of Schenectady, in 1978, Doris put together a group that became RID, America’s first anti-drunken driving organization.
By 1983, RID had 130 chapters in 30 states.
Today, the non-profit RID USA Inc. has 35 chapters in 25 states that operate autonomously.
RID has never taken money from the alcohol industry and is funded entirely through its book and video sales, charitable donations and grants.
When it comes to the cause, Doris remains as passionate as ever.
Earlier this month, The Gazette visited Doris and her son in their home near Ellis Hospital, which for 38 years has also been the headquarters for RID.

Faith in people

A gracious woman with pale ginger hair, Doris was eager to talk about RID and the volunteers that keep it going.
“I feel very grateful to have the opportunity to make a difference. And I’m proud about the people I got to know. All different kinds of people,” she says.
Looking forward, Doris says she has faith that younger generations will keep the fight going and change attitudes even more.
“I feel very confident that we’re going to get rid of the drunk driving menace in this country as well as other countries,” she says.
Young people and drunk driving is one of her special interests.
“We have a high level of young people being killed. It’s difficult for young people to grasp that,” she says.
“They have an obligation, no matter how terrific the next beer party is, to just say ‘no.’ ”
Young people can be the “leaders in the new growing field of people who do not drink and drive,” she says. “And when that happens, we’re going to see
fewer mangled cars and fewer broken hearts. These accidents with young people need never happen.”
And parents must be the role models, she says.
“We shouldn’t let our children get the idea that it’s really cool to go to a drinking party.”
When you host a party, look out for people who are drinking too much and make sure their spouse, partner or friend knows that that person won’t be able
to drive home, she advises.
“You have an obligation to report anyone who is inebriated on the road or if they are going to leave your house from a party.”
Another party tip is to pick a family member who can drive someone home if needed.
“That’s what a host has to do. You have to love your guests and take care of them if you are going to serve drinks.”
For more information about RID, go to www.rid-usa.org or phone 888-283-5144.
Reach Gazette reporter Karen Bjornland at 395-3197, kbjornland@dailygazette.net or on Twitter @bjorngazette.

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Doris Aiken, with then Secretary of Transportation Elizabeth Dole. Courtesy of William Aiken.

Doris Aiken, with then Secretary of Transportation Elizabeth Dole. Courtesy of William Aiken.

When someone dies a preventable death, there is no obligation for loved ones to become activists, aiming to stop similar deaths. It is enough to merely grieve for a tragic loss.

But some people turn their grief into action, devoting countless hours to educating the public and creating change. One such person in Doris Aiken, who turns 90 on July 31, 2016 and is now in her 39th year of activism to prevent drunk driving. Most amazingly, perhaps, is that Aiken barely knew the two teenagers whose deaths would change her life. I am honored to have met her when researching my book on the history of drunk driving, One for the Road.

Aiken was making dinner for her family on December 5, 1977 when she noticed a headline in the local Schenectady, New York newspaper. A drunk driver, with a blood alcohol level more than twice the legal limit and an open can of beer between his knees, had killed two local teenagers that Aiken knew distantly.

As a journalist who hosted a television program that addressed pressing social issues, Aiken knew a good story. But when she began digging, what she discovered astounded her.

The local district attorney chuckled when she asked him whether the driver would receive severe punishment. “No, we don’t take away licenses or put people in jail,” he said.

“This is an accident,” the D.A. added. “He didn’t mean to do it and probably feels very bad about it.” He advised Aiken not to get involved.

By even reaching the D.A., Aiken had done better than the mother of the two victims. He would not, Aiken later wrote, even return the bereaved woman’s phone calls.

What followed over the next months and years was pure grassroots activism. With the backing of her Unitarian church, Aiken organized a small meeting of interested citizens. This group would eventually become Remove Intoxicated Drivers (RID), America’s first anti-drunk driving organization, in 1978.

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Legicrawler Reporter: California leads in passing Anti-dwi bills

California continues to pass more bills related to alcohol regulation and dwi legislation among them, a bill that would permit the seizure of vehicles operated by drunken drivers in certain cases where the convicted defendant demonstrates a history or persistent drunken driving. California also closed a loop hold in the ignition interlock enforcement. This law would ensure that the drunken driver would complete all requirements of their probation before the ignition interlock was removed from their vehicle.

Drunken drivers have slipped through the cracks in this area. New York State has passed a similar bill, where this problem has been evident for some time. This bill was the only anti-dwi bill that passed this year. Why was California able to pass 13 anti-dwi bills while New York only managed one? This disparity could be attributed to the that fact in California Democrats have majorities inboth the senate and assembly. New York’s democratic assembly passes many anti-dwi  bills only to have them blocked by the majority Republican senate.

Kentucky and Tennessee passed a total of 9 anti-dwi bills this past year.

 

Meredith Smith Memorial

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.                               Meredith Smith holding her niece, Melohdi

Meredith Smith (March 23rd 1995 – July 27th 2012)

Meredith Smith was born in Lancaster, Pennsylvania. . She was a shining star in our family, and in our community. She excelled in academics with a 4.49 GPA, she was an amazing athlete and made the varsity cheer squad at Flagler Palm Coast High School her freshmen year. She would have been one of the first four year varsity cheerleaders at FPC if she wasn’t involved in the accident.

Not only was Meredith an astounding scholar athlete, she also had a strong presence in the community volunteering for Flagler Beach’s Junior Lifeguard program and working as a server at Steak n’ Shake. Where ever she was, or what ever she was doing, she always gave 150% and her joyful presence was felt by all.

The loss of Meredith was not only hard for my family, but for our community as well. She would still be here today if it hadn’t been for a careless driver operating his motor vehicle under the influence of narcotics. We lost her on July 27th, 2012, a day that many will remember for ever as one of the worst days of their lives.
– Zach Smith, Brother of Meredith